Resources

Faithful guidance for families & caregivers.

Catholic Ethical Guidance

Foundational Catholic guidance on human dignity, serious illness, end-of-life care, and ethical healthcare decision-making.

This beautiful video series illustrates the dignity of the human person during end-of-life care. It is a strong resource for caregivers who desire to provide loving, Christ-centered care for a seriously ill loved one
 
The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops developed and revised (2025) this document (ERD) to reaffirm the ethical standards about the dignity of the human person and provide guidance on moral issues that face Catholic healthcare today. All people associated with Divine Mercy Home, including those service providers referred by the organization, attest that they will adhere to these directives.
“The ERDs lead to the ultimate flourishing of the human person”—Msgr. Mark Merdian, S.T.L., presenter at the Sept. 2023 Catholic Medical Association annual conference.
  
This statement by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops discusses the dignity of every human person, the false notion of compassion in assisted suicide, and proposes a better way to address the needs of people with serious illnesses.
  
Article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

Making Medical Decisions

Resources to help families think through difficult medical decisions in a way that respects the dignity of the person and Catholic moral teaching.

 

Do you have a question about a particular circumstance and are wondering which would be the ethical choice to make? The National Catholic Bioethics Center offers a free personal consultation.

A Catholic Guide to End-of-Life Decisions

This is a second downloadable document offered by NCBC, which provides a brief and clear explanation of Church teaching on advance directives, euthanasia, and physician-assisted suicide, with a glossary of terms, as well as sample advance directive and power of attorney forms.

Catholic Principles for Medical Decision Making

By HALO founder, Julie Grimstad
 
The document advocates for a life-affirming approach to healthcare that balances preserving life with avoiding futile or excessively burdensome treatments. It emphasizes informed decision-making, respect for patient autonomy, appropriate symptom management, and the provision of nutrition and hydration as ordinary care except during the natural dying process when they no longer provide benefit.
Published by HALO
A closer look at the benefits and burdens regarding end-of-life decision-making.
 
Ethical principles for end-of-life care, prepared by the ethicists at NCBC, February 2013.

The NCBC teaches that end-of-life care should uphold the dignity of every person by providing compassionate care, effective symptom relief, and appropriate life-sustaining treatment while allowing patients to decline treatments that are excessively burdensome or no longer beneficial. The goal is neither to prolong life at all costs nor to intentionally hasten death, but to accompany patients with compassion and respect until natural death.

Now And At The Hour of Our Death Making Moral Decisions at the End of Life

by Nikols T Nikas and Bruce W Green

Planning Ahead

Resources to help you prepare for future medical decisions in a way that honors Catholic teaching and your loved one’s dignity.

 

This document provides a relatable example of how important it is to prepare an advanced directive by discussing various scenarios with our loved ones as preparation for the occasion of them not being able to verbalize their wishes for end-of-life care. Pathways for Catholic-based decision-making are discussed.


Going too far with DNR?

Article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

Discusses benefits, concerns, and guidelines regarding the Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST) document, which is considered an optional document for patient end-of-life care and requires consideration of patient relevance to particular changing medical status. A Catholic version of POLST is also provided.


Of Proxies and POLSTs: The Good and Bad of End of Life Planning

Article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

Hospice, Palliative Care & Pain Management

 

Guidance on comfort care, pain relief, hospice, and palliative care from a Catholic perspective.

 

This downloadable document offered by NCBC explains the similarities and differences between palliative care and hospice, as well as the challenges each presents.

Killing the Pain, Not the Patient: Palliative Care vs. Assisted Suicide

This PDF explains the difference between assisted suicide and end-of-life care.

Palliative Sedation While Approaching Death

Discusses St. John Paul II’s teachings on the meaning of suffering and the importance of retaining consciousness toward the end of one’s life.
CHA Caring for People at the End of Life

Caring for a Loved One Near the End of Life

Support for families accompanying a loved one through serious illness, decline, or the final stages of life.

 

Practical Caregiving:

Advice from a priest
 

A Nonprofit Christian life-affirming organization that strives to protect, support, and advocate for medically vulnerable persons and provide various resources for their caregivers

Questions to Ask Hospice Before Admission

Published by HALO

Accompaniment:

This two-page article discusses 10 pillars for Christian accompaniment of loved ones during their journey into eternal life.

Kathy Kalina, RN, sheds light on what meaningful support for the terminally ill may look like.

 

by Michelle Johnson

 

Explores the meaning of the word compassion and the importance of human contact and accompaniment of a loved one facing their final journey home.

 

Considerations explored regarding institutionalized vs. home end-of-life care.

Explores the notion that a “good death” is characterized by a sense of wholeness and well-being provided by being surrounded by loved ones as opposed to a “poor death” often manifested by fear and anxiety of institutionalization.

 

This website equips Catholic women to conquer the 4th Commandment. Resources are provided to help women navigate the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual challenges that come with caring for Mom and Dad. 

Books and Longer Formation 

 by Carolyn Humphreys

 

An updated version of the original 15th-century text, still applicable today. It explores the five temptations that often accompany the dying and provides five pathways of encouragement toward holiness during this final battle on Earth.

 

By Cristen Krebs, DNP, HALO board member.

 

Consoling Thoughts on Sickness and Death

by Pete Huguet

by Emily S Chapman and Dr Scott Hahn

Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying, shares insights on the end of life on Earth.

 

Reflections and Articles

Understanding basic principles of care and preparing for the transition of a loved one into eternal life.

 

article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

 

article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

 

Powerlessness, or the Hidden Power in Our Suffering?

article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

Bringing Christ to the Clinic
article by Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, the Director of Education for the National Catholic Bioethics Center on Death and Dying

 

Resignation to the Will of God in Death

A sure means of salvation From the writings of St. Francis de Sales, Bishop and Doctor of the Church: “Many people are tormented at death with the remembrance of their sins, and seeing that they have done no penance, are tempted to despair.” He tells us that there is a perfect remedy – “Namely, to accept death and unite your death with that of Jesus Christ. And I do not at all doubt that he who is grieved for having offended God and accepts death willingly in satisfaction for his sins will immediately obtain pardon.” From the book “Preparation For Death” by St. Alphonsus Maria de Ligouri, Bishop and Doctor of the Church: “To accept death in order that the will of God may be fulfilled, merits for us a reward similar to that of the martyrs, because they accepted death to please God. He who dies in union with the will of God makes a holy death; and the more closely he is united to it, the more holy death he dies. The Venerable Blosius declares that an act of perfect conformity to the will of God at the hour of death not only delivers us from Hell but also from Purgatory.”

Prayer & Spiritual Support

 

Prayers and spiritual resources for patients, families, caregivers, and those accompanying the dying.

Prayers for the Sick and Dying

Chaplet of Divine Mercytext and audio

Rosary audio

Daily Mass

 

a Diocese of St. Petersburg publication

Order for the Blessing of the Sick | USCCB

The blessing of the sick by the ministers of the Church is a very ancient custom, having its origins in the practice of Christ himself and his apostles.

Novena of Surrender to Our Blessed Mother Mary

Prayer of Resignation in Death

My most sweet Jesus, I accept the death Thou has destined for me; with all the pains that may accompany it; I unite it to Thy death, I offer it to Thee. Thou hast died for love of me, I will die for love of Thee and to please Thee. It is recommended that you say this prayer daily as we do not know the day of our death, and what a blessing it would be to have said it on our last day. You are urged to order this card for distribution for the greater honor and glory of our Dear Lord and for the salvation of souls.

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Spiritual Reading:

This first-hand account of Jesus’ revelation of the Father’s Mercy upon mankind has been referred to as the second-greatest book aside from the Holy Bible. St. Faustina captures the direct revelation of Jesus’ words to her in this diary, which has been approved by the Catholic Church. In it, Jesus describes how trust in Him is the bridge between mankind’s misery and God’s loving mercy being poured out to all during this unique time in salvation’s history.

Litany for Caregivers Prayer

Sacramental Support Guidance 

“The final reception of holy Communion before death is called viaticum, which means ‘food for the journey’ of the believer to heaven itself — Today’s Catholic
When a loved one is seriously ill or nearing death, families are encouraged to request a Catholic priest as soon as possible for Confession, Anointing of the Sick, Viaticum (Holy Communion), and the Apostolic Pardon. It does not matter how long they have not been attending church.
Please do not wait because your loved one seems too sick, too weak, unable to speak, or has been away from the Church for many years. This is a time for mercy, prayer, and spiritual care. A priest can help determine what sacraments and blessings are appropriate, including Confession, Anointing of the Sick, Viaticum, and the Apostolic Pardon.
Call your parish office or after-hours emergency sacramental line; if your loved one is in a hospital, nursing home, or hospice setting, ask the nurse, chaplain, or front desk to contact the on-call Catholic priest and say clearly: “We are requesting a priest for the Last Rites, including the Apostolic Pardon.”
The Apostolic Pardon
The Apostolic Pardon is a special blessing normally given by a priest to a Catholic who is in danger of death, often together with the sacraments of Confession, Anointing of the Sick, and Viaticum. A priest may use either of these forms:
Form A
“Through the holy mysteries of our redemption, may almighty God release you from all punishments in this life and in the life to come. May he open to you the gates of paradise and welcome you to everlasting joy. Amen.”
Form B
“By the authority which the Apostolic See has given me, I grant you a full pardon and the remission of all your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.”
 
“Time spent in honor of God and for the salvation of souls is never badly spent.” – St. Pio

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